Glimpses of it coming together 

So… after what seemed like eternity to many people, and even perhaps to myself, things are starting to fall into place. Not the job situation, unfortunately, but rather the home renovation. I have put off talking about it for the longest time because oddly, when quizzed about it by concerned people around, it gets me into a frenzy and zips me straight into defensive mode. I don’t know why, but it just frazzles my nerves when people start to ask “Why is it taking so long?” and even worse, when some well-meaning family members started to lend their help somewhere along the way and began with statements like “You should have thought of…” Yes, technically, I should have. But how would I have been able to, and why didn’t you right at the beginning? I don’t even want to venture into that territory so let’s just let it go and rest in peace.

I think I still don’t want to talk too much about it. In certain things, I choose to remain fairly private. There are many things I can talk openly about, right here on this blog, but then this is one topic I would probably prefer to reserve on. It cuts a little too close for comfort maybe. But I can still share on some of the good stuff that emerged.

Initially, places that I started shopping at for furniture include just IKEA and some online websites that I chanced upon while browsing Facebook. But there are so many furniture shops all over Singapore. One day when I was at Suntec, checking out other stuff, we stumbled upon this row of shops that showcased rather pretty-looking pieces. One of them had really steep prices and most of the furniture belonged to the modern, contemporary sort that would have looked nice but probably did not fit so well into what I envisioned for my place. One shop carried many wooden pieces, actually I think all their furniture are made of wood, and some pieces caught my eye. The prices weren’t exactly affordable either but they were not as high as some others that I have seen, such as those really beautiful ones in Millenia Walk, the likes of Grafunkt, etc.

Finally, after returning to the shop a second time on a separate occasion, I settled on the TV console that I had been searching high and low for. I had wanted to keep most of the furniture light-coloured to maintain a consistency but decided to just heck it because I really love this very much.Pardon the red plastic bag at the bottom left corner of the picture. This photo is a little over-exposed but the console is made of walnut and comes in quite a dark ashy-brown shade. It is also extremely solid and heavy, and I adore its simplicity and also how well-made I felt it to be. The drawers have those anti-slamming thing built into them so that you could push them shut and they would slowly and gently slide close. ^_^

It, of course, also got the approval of the family who complimented the console for looking great despite it being really plain and simple.

On the same day that I took delivery of the console, who were really prompt in making the delivery, I also waited (a much longer time though) for the sofa and ottoman set, and dining table to be delivered. This proved to be a much longer affair because they had to assemble the items on delivery whereas the console come as one single piece that they removed from the box and just heaved it into my living room.

So this was the sofa that I finally decided on, a charcoal grey 2-seater (ottoman not pictured). The legs are a sort of mahogany brown, which still doesn’t match either the console or dining, but I have decided to stop thinking about that for now. The sofa cushions are the firm sort, so I won’t have those plushy soft sofas to sink my butt into. The bonus was that instead of 2 throw cushions, I realised I have 4! I think the delivery people didn’t know there were already throw cushions wrapped into the sofa itself, so they passed me another 2 when they came. Oh well.
Due to the dining light that is shining at the sofa from the left contrasted against the natural sunlight coming from the right, I think the colour doesn’t turn out so obvious. But then it’s still the darkest thing around the living room. I had expected my wall to turn out a little darker but actually the shade of paint I had chosen was decidedly ok and didn’t make my living room look too dark and small. 🙂

Even as things are started to come together, as I begin to put things in perspective and pack for the move, I realise that there are still so many things outstanding that I need to sort out and buy. Buying a new home and renovating it is no easy piece of cake, especially when you are going it almost alone. I don’t know how life will turn out at that point when I really make the move, which I have been trying to delay, consciously or unconsciously. After all, I have never really lived apart from my family, despite that I used to travel regularly. Then, I still have a home that I return to with my family in it. From this point on, it will just be me.

Packing is another nightmare. After living in the current place for more than 20 years, even for such a tiny flat, we have accumulated volumes of things that would probably put the greatest hoarder to shame. At least for me,.I think I keep too many items as memorabilia. Although it might be nice to keep them if I had the space and also time to arrange them, it just doesn’t serve that much purpose anymore. It pains me a little to throw some things away, not just because I am a hoarder but because some of those things trigger memories and offer sentimental value, and making choices on what to keep and what to bin seem like the hardest decision to take. Sigh. That said, it can be quite a cathartic process packing and dumping a whole lot of things as mountains of paper bags containing little knick-knacks start to grow smaller day by day.

Furniture Shopping (part 2)

Following the earlier post on shopping for sofas, I re-considered the colour of the sofa that I should buy because I thought that against a wall painted in a fairly dark shade of grey, a light grey sofa or a blue sofa may create too much distraction. I tried searching online for some ideas of sofa colours that would suit a dark wall, and the general opinion seems that if I’m furnishing a small room, it may be better to stick to a colour that would blend into the wall, which could help to alleviate the possibility of the living area appearing congested or crammed. The contrast in colour of the sofa would make it stand out, if that’s the intention, but I think I would rather create the impression of a larger room, due to the tight space availability.

Well, maybe you would ask why I would choose to paint my wall a dark shade of grey then, since dark colours are generally supposed to make spaces appear smaller, which is exactly what I wouldn’t want. But I’m not painting the whole living room grey, it’s just one slab of wall, which happens to be the one that the sofa would be backed up against.

Furnishing a home, according to many, is fun and exciting. But for someone like me who can get extremely fickle, it is nothing short of a headache, even if there are not that many pieces that I have to think about. One other challenge is the size of the furniture, as my living area is small and is in a longish-rectangular shape.

That said, it’s something necessary and I think when everything’s settled, I hope I can look at the end product and give myself a pat on the back for a job well done.

For some time, I have refrained from talking about my new home, whether it was during the scouting and prospecting phase, the purchasing phase, the renovation phase (that is thankfully nearing the end, I hope, with fingers tightly-crossed), and of course the furnishing phase. I have left out the cleaning and moving in phases, because I am not looking forward to having to clean up the flat when everything’s done, and making that final transit to moving in, permanently. So why do I talk about it now? Maybe I have nothing else to really write about, or that I feel like writing about. Or maybe I think it’s not that big a deal to have to keep it secret. Well there are a lot of ‘maybes’.

So… after the long mulling on the sofa, I decided to go for the bundled option of a sofa with the ottoman, hoping that the ottoman could perhaps double as a side/coffee-table (with a tray on-top) if necessary, or otherwise it could just be a seat for visitors, since I am getting a small 2-seater. I considered taking the light grey, but I checked with the vendor, who informed that they could only deliver it in January, which is not ideal because I planned to have everything ready, hopefully by the end of 2015. So I picked the dark grey, or as they call it, charcoal.

Hanford Bundle_charcoal

I went down to the shop today and paid for the above. The sales person attending to me told me I had 48 hours to re-think the choice of colour, and if I really wanted the light grey, I can opt to have it, but would have to wait till end January for delivery.

So now that is something that weighs on my mind, at least for the next 48 hours until everything gets cast in stone. And then I recalled that I had another option, or at least that is what I think I may have, which I had not checked with the sales person. I saw another sofa in the online catalogue that looked nice too. Tracy Loveseat_charcoal

Yes, I know. Itchy backside. I didn’t see it at the showroom when I popped by to make the purchase of the earlier sofa. I think this one looks good too, but I don’t know how it would feel, in terms of the firmness of the seat cushions. I should go and find out.

Furniture shopping

Was tossing between this:

Hanford Bundle

And this:picket & rail_kuka

To be honest, I can’t really remember how both felt when I sat on them, on 2 separate occasions, in 2 different showrooms. Tried searching online for reviews of their brands, to not much results. Hmm. Furniture shopping is indeed a headache, even when there aren’t that many pieces that I am considering to add to my tiny little home. I’m thankful for that at least. But the sofa is going to be one major item that will sit in the living room so it will be an important decision to make.